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I always enjoy hearing people's deepest secrets. It makes me feel closer to them, even if I don't know them.

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And I also feel comfortable telling anyone my "secrets". I never understood why someone would want to hide their selves from. Hi ecstasy, I think you've made a good point which, if I understand you correctly, means that you're sharing secrets with someone you know at least somewhat.

And of course, there are "secrets," and "secrets" so I suppose it depends on what you're sharing and who you're sharing it. Thanks for getting the conversation started!

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However, sometimes I feel that these strangers will give me an unbiased opinion about an issue. Perhaps I need to find more confidants that I can share my feelings about on a regular basis? I'm reluctant to share intimate secrets with strangers, mainly out of a possibly misplaced sense of courtesy.

I don't know where their boundaries are, and I don't want to accidentally overstep.

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I know I can safely discuss "certain things" with certain friends but not with. It doesn't mean we're not close friends, it just means they aren't comfortable talking about "certain things", and I respect.

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I totally disagree with your comments re TMI.

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